So here is my list of what I want and don't want in a partner. Feel free to add anything you think is important or that I may have forgotten.
Yes Please
Must be mentally stable
Must be mentally mature
Have a professional job that goes with their age.
Be financially stable
Has a car
Has own home
Well groomed
Dresses well
Has a good sense of humor
Respects everyone even those they don’t like
Confident in their own sexuality
Confident expressing their own sexual needs and wants
Loves animals
Likes to travel
Likes the beach
Can be spontaneous
Has a good relationship with his family
Has self worth
Open Minded
Kind to everyone
Is willing to talk about issues effecting them
Always willing to stop what they are doing for romance
Can defiantly multi task
Artistic
Love music and art
Can communicate their wants and needs
Enjoys celebrating holidays no matter how simple
Enjoys teaching as well as learning
Knows what they want in life and is not afraid to go for it.
Willing to help their partner achieve their goals in life
No Thanks
No Drinking…Even Socially
No Drugs…Even Marijuana
No Smoking…Even Socially
No Pornography
No Sports
No preconceived likes or dislikes against people based on religion, weight, politics, ethnicity, or any other shallow reasons.
No small children. Grown kids are fine.
Does not like to camp, fish, hunt, etc
Does not have anger issues or violent temper
Personal Side
Has to be taller than me
Prefer someone older than me
Able to express emotions but still be manly
Does not need to “take care” of me in order to be with me
Has enough self-confidence to allow me to be independent
Cannot be jealous in any way
Has to be able to trust their partner
Always up for a weekend away
Always willing to take Tau & Kali on the weekend away
Money is great but has to be able to let it come and go